Time to make some resolutions!!! π
Most people groan & roll their eyes when someone mentions resolutions…but I love them. My type-A personality loves a little challenge! Last year I made 4 resolutions and I was successful in 3 of them. The fourth just lost it’s appeal to me π
This year my goals all have to do with organization! Every since I had Harper I have struggled with keeping things organized and having my day planned. I see all these other stay at home moms with their days planned and activities/projects arranged in advance…I NEED that to be me! Being a type-A I fill my house & computer up with lists & calendars but I just haven’t found a system that truly works for me. I feel like I’m floundering around and it is driving.me.nuts! With Dan leaving in a few months and me having to take on all parenting/household duties I am going to need the help more than ever! So..
Resolution #1 – Get life more organized!!!
I’ve started already by setting up a better calendar system that links all our calendars (dan, mine, harper, family events, etc) together so I can get a quick picture of how the month will look. I also devised out a household cleaning schedule to help me get it all done during the week. I can not do a huge clean with Harper around because she demands too much attention (and she is a tornado destroying the path behind me) so usually Dan takes her once a week so I can try to get as much done as possible. With him gone that just won’t work! I’ve broken it up into 2-3 small tasks a day so I can stay on top of things AND still enjoy playing with Harper. (Deep cleaning will be left to a maid service twice a month….one thing I must have while he is gone!).
I also went through and set all our financial goals for the next year and arranged our budget throughout the year to achieve them. Dan does not even pretend to understand my complex budget system (it is a little crazy)…but it works and it lets me make sure that we hit our intended targets for retirement, college savings, vacation funds, etc..each year. Once upon a time we didn’t budget at all. We paid our bills, set aside some in 401k/savings and everything else was pure fun money. Then when disaster hit and we both lost our jobs at the same time I had to do a quick 180 and figure out how to budget us as a family to keep our emergency fund from running out. It still scares me to think how close that fund got to $0 before Dan got his job at Northwestern. Plus in that time I saw how much money we were throwing away on stupid stuff! If you don’t budget/track your expenses I HIGHLY recommend you do it for two months…you will be amazed.
Now I just need to figure out how to better organize my days/weeks. I need some sort of routine! We have Little Gym on Tuesdays and I need to start looking into swim classes and another activity for the summer. I like knowing that I have something planned with Harper most days of the week. Help keep the cabin fever from setting in! I really really wish I could make some mommy friends here in SA but so far I just haven’t found a group that I click with. Blah!
Resolution #2 – Improve on the resolutions I succeeded on from last year!! (Gym & Healthy eating)
Dan and I joined the gym by our house a few months ago and I.Love.It! It might be the only thing saving my sanity some days as a stay at home mom. Two hours of blissful “me” time. We are still having problems with Harper enjoying the childcare center (what is wrong with this child?! They have computer stations, jungle gyms, basketball courts, play kitchens, movie area….it is Awesome!) so I have mostly been going when Dan is home to watch her. After the holidays though I am going to make a point to take her every single day until she starts to enjoy it (that will happen right?!). I hate driving there only to get called down to the center after 15 min because she won’t calm down….but I am going to have to suck it up in hopes that one day she will want to go and I can get a good workout with her there! I have met and exceeded my goal weight….but there is a LOT more toning that needs to be done! π
I also want to improve our family diet even more. We successfully cut out HFCS and most processed foods (we loosened up over the holidays and my body has shown me how much that crap hurts you!). I want to slowly increase the organic produce we buy and really look into getting our chicken from a local farm. I really miss the Chicago area in this regard! The farmer’s markets here are a joke….I dream about the one close to our condo in Chicago…and my in-laws garden….hmmmmm…..
Resolution #3 – Volunteer
I am extremely lucky to not have to work right now and enjoy the time being home with kids. I do however want to find time to do some sort of volunteer work. I don’t really have any ideas on what type of volunteer work I want yet….hopefully it comes to me! π Β I keep meaning to look into the officer’s wives club on base, I’m sure they have lists of places in need of help.
Resolution #4 – Keep working at “unplugging” from the TV/Internet!
We have gotten a lot better about it since my last post…..but I have found myself sinking back in with all the holiday craze! π
And Last….
Resolution #5 – Take a cooking class! Specifically look into a pastry making class π
I really enjoy cooking now (I know those that have known me for a long time are shocked! I am too!). I’ve been branching out lately in my baked goods and I would love to take a class on making difficult french pastries. Dan’s coworkers are really going to hate me!!!
All right there are my 5 resolutions for 2012! I type them out here to keep myself accountable! Hopefully I can hit them all in the next 12 months π Β What are your resolutions?